My Dad told her that she can't make up an excuse for what she did and left for work. She stayed at home till I was 10 doing her university and masters. I knew that my mom had another boyfriend that made them to get a divorce. I talked to harleys mom, I said that 1- she needs to go to therapy with someone who doesn’t choose someone’s side, and someone who helps her see other POV, but I am not willing to do that with her and that’s something she needs to do on her own. This happens very frequently. 24 votes, 36 comments. That was issue number one, as my mom still carries my dad's last name. AITA for telling my mom that my step dad will never be my dad. My brother (17m) has always been my mother’s favourite and no I am not just saying this, but she tells this to everyone around her. AITA for telling my mother I respect and love her as a person but she didn’t raise me and can’t claim to My mother is a great woman and has gone through more than anyone ever should. Don't let her intimate you. That’s just plain rude. 000000% parenting time. Not your job to hold her hand for moral support so she can visit him in prison. The dinner was held at this very expensive, very fancy, fine-dining restaurant. She left it all to my dad. I feel like I should be more open to the situation, but it’s extremely hard for me because I loved my dad a lot and I think this would make him sad. " Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). 5ym& 7mf) to my parents (59m & 56f). I've pointed out to her that she was off on the Friday before they arrived however she said 1) I work from home whereas she doesn't and 2) they are my parents and I did not ask. I called her crazy, and told her there was nothing to 'fix', I then told her if she didn't love F for who he is, I would always make a space for him at my house (he's a close friend of my son and is around often). All she does is tell me that I never do anything around the house when I do every conceivable chore I can think of so that she comes home from work to a clean house. I've never had an amazing relationship with her, she never really tried to bond with me. My dad has this problem where he just totally cows to whatever woman gets with him. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. As someone who was adopted because they’re mother was severely neglectful—NTA. AITA for yelling at my dad's new gf. You did nothing wrong in telling your dad he is a horrible father. I'm gonna say YTA. My dad was devastated to say the least. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Told my mom the exact moment I stopped loving and caring about her. So I (15M) was studying and my mom decided to randomly snatch my phone from my hands and starts seeing my history because she thought I was doing something else, so I snatched it back and told her to stop looking through my phone, it was in a calm voice so I don't think my tone was a problem, but. Now to the story. As long as dad is happy I am happy for him. I’ve (25) been dating my gf (23) for about 9 months now. my mom would tell me that she divorced him bc he couldn’t help us out not bc she didn’t love him anymore. He hasn't drank in 6 years. That might be wrong because he is technically the adult in the situation, and I might've made a problem between him and my mom. He’s talked to me here and there but i could tell he never really like me. Seems people are focusing on the 150k wedding more than the actual. Then, my dad walks into the room. Your mother has prioritised her peace of mind over your safety, your privacy and mental health. But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. AITA for telling my dad I don't want to live with him anymore. You need to be able to express your frustrations and disappointment that your accomplishments and feelings are not recognized. Your husband is an AH, your mom and MIL are AHs, and your friend is an AH. It sounds like Sian/her parents really think having a mother is important. She got sober when I was a teenager after suffering an injury that left her permanently disabled. In my personal opinion, you can't call yourself my dad if you see me 8 days a month. Its a moral hit to know your dad was parading to be someones friend while screwing his wife behind his back - and you were the one that brought this gift into their lives. This also isn't the first time you've called her names. AITA for telling my mother I respect and love her as a person but she didn’t raise me and can’t claim to My mother is a great woman and has gone through more than anyone ever should. • 19 min. My mom thinks I’m crazy cause I’m planning to give any future kids I have my last name first and then the father. So in the heat of the moment, I said something along the lines of: "By your own logic, the only slut in the family is you. " Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). Not the A-hole. I've never had an amazing relationship with her, she never really tried to bond with me. If you have the conversation and they don't change to respect your boundaries afterward, you may wish to consider whether you want to go lower contact with them. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. I remember my mom telling my dad she loves him and then going to her AP after that. You know you are not. Yup, I waited way too long too. AITA for telling my family to stop saying my stepmom is my mom. We don’t want to be around her, because she’s weird and a psycho. Just know that it gets better and the way he treats you is not a reflection of your character. Backstory: My (17F) mom (45F) cheated on my dad (46M) 7 years ago with my step-dad, Alan (50M). Three and a half years is a short amount of time to get over a twenty-five year marriage. Although I now live abroad, I like the area he lives in and my husband offered to buy a. We don’t want to be around her, because she’s weird and a psycho. This story is one wild ride. I was living with her full time before she passed. Also, happy birthday 💛 Today is my daughter's birthday, too. All was well. Yes me neither. My step dad ( mid 50’s) at the time was cheating on her with a woman (28) This was a really rough time for my mom figuring all this out. The latest drama on the AITA subreddit revolves around an a**hole mother-in-law, and the unfortunate (but reasonable!) placement of her daughter-in-law’s a**. Me: I understand maybe (boyfriend) and his kids, but his extended family will not be my family. Think back on the conversation your mother had with you and ask yourself if you'd say those things to your own child. It pains me since she’s my mom and I want her to be apart of it, but I don’t want to subject my family any further to her neglect and callousness to them. Good parenting requires more than the minimum. My dad is still her dad. My mom is a single parent and I'm an only child. Nothing wrong with being a step parent but crazy to try and act like. I’ll jump right into it I talked to harleys mom, I said that 1- she needs to go to therapy with someone who doesn’t choose someone’s side, and someone who helps her see other POV, but I am not willing to do that with her and that’s something she needs to do on her own. You like dying your hair, she supports you in buying hair dye and hair care products. I (16f) live with my dad (38m) and now new step mom 'Amanda' (31f) and step sibs Cait/Bo(9f/11m). I knew that my mom had another boyfriend that made them to get a divorce. NTA, in court you say exactly what you want and why. All but 1 were teenagers. Abusive parents will frequently do the minimum and want rewards for it, when they did it for themselves, not for their children. She got sober when I was a teenager after suffering an injury that left her permanently disabled. My parents are really controlling with her and always has been; my mom is a stay-at-home parent and is I think bored and has no other outlet but to helicopter around my sister, and my dad (50+) comes from a very repressed, traditional English family and thinks that. Then, as the eldest are able to escape, the next eldest daughter usually gets saddled with the responsibility. I started getting annoyed and just said, “I don’t really care what you think because I don’t even really like you and you aren’t my mom. My father was not a Holocaust survivor. After a while of me and her hanging out he stopped letting me come over so I haven’t seen her in a little less than a year. • 19 min. Original post here. • 23 days ago. Especially to my mom. Just know that it gets better and the way he treats you is not a reflection of your character. I had just gotten back home after seeing her. (she's nasty when she's angry and will turn his whole family against him). He’s talked to me here and there but i could tell he never really like me. Blaming GF for your Dad breaking up your family--your Dad took vows with your Ma, which he broke. My dad fought hard to get custody from my mom because he did not want to lose me at all. she then started screaming at me, accusing me of trying to kidnap F and 'make him fully gay, while he is still fixable'. When I (19F) was 15, my step brother (Jake-17M) began living with us. She has two kids who are under 10. She took to AITA forum to explain why she decided to lock the family out of her house — and. I had already been in a bad mood the whole day, so I ended up telling them how I felt they were prioritizing tone-checking us more than hearing us out, and that they were being dismissive of our feelings just for a tone of voice. As for your mom, her addiction is what destroyed your relationship with her, and you were right when you said rebuilding the trust is on her. Not the A-hole. I grew up resenting my parents and my sister. Basically, my mom had a hint that my dad was dating someone few weeks ago when he saw him at the local market with his gf. My mom has always been a bit of a doormat to my dad, so the more I think about it, the more I realize that suggesting that she has no self-respect may have hit way deeper than I intended. You do you and whatever makes you happy. Don't feel like an AH. I call her my better 3/4's lol. It’s gotten better over the years but it used to be horrible. My wife has some health issues. op's gf: 2 can play at that game. I'm sad about the abortion. I (16f) grew up without a father for a long time it was just me and my mom. At the same time my mom's husband would listen to me vent about dad and her, but never spoke a word, and sometimes even reminded me that even if I felt like he preferred his wife, he still loved me. My mom married Geoff when my sisters and I were teenagers (17, 15 and 14 respectively). Sounds like you/your sibling demand things from your father in a rude/bossy tone, then. Her dad (in her own words) racist, bigoted, and antisemitic. Yes me neither. You like eyeliner, she supports you in getting eyeliner. I tell her she shouldn’t be talking since while her last name is not first I have no option but to put it in everything that I signed. It sounds as if your mom is scared to take the side of anyone that isn’t your dad. I had to care for a patient that was brain dead, but we kept her body alive to run tests and for her mom and dad to at least hold her. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. If you do see her, maybe do it somewhere neutral that you can leave if she is saying horrible things. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like I might be the asshole because usually when someone finds info on their spouse cheating u tell them but I feel like if I tell my mom. I don’t respect my dad’s last name. For this reason mom was very devastated. I’m going to go home, and will have no desire to get together with you again. I don’t hold any of that against her though. So I am pretty sure that my dad(39M) is going to divorce my mom (37F) after 17 years. Last year my mom got married to my step dad brad. Judgement_Bot_AITA • 7 mo. I was in a relationship with him for 6 years and in those 6 years iput up with all kinds of mental, emotional AND physical abuse, granted physically, it was only 3 times the 3rd being when ifinally faught back and left him because at that point for me there was no respect left in the relationship on either side and to this day he swears he's the one that. Sometimes there is blame only for one, often after 20 years the blame is shared between both. NTA but I will say that your mom is definitely unaware of your schedule. Ever since I told T. In fact she is the reason why dad is happy now and she will always be above my step-dad. Apologize to your father’s wife, she took the wrong way, but you are not an AH because of that. I love her a ton. I have some injuries that cause problems myself. According to a post shared by the 16-year-old stepson (under the username Contkad851) on Reddit's r/AmITheA**hole (AITA) sub, his stepdad married his mother when the user was a one-year-old. After a week after the final divorce, my farther got new girlfriend, (Sofía, 26). You're an adult so we bought you a car and make you pay for it. He cut him off his life too. The mother actually had the audacity to call her ex-husband to complain and was told so long as she was a thief, stealing her child’s clothes, nothing would change. AITA for telling my mom that my step dad will never be my dad. My mom told me I spend so much of my time with. AITA for telling my family to stop saying my stepmom is my mom. Not the A-hole. It's why I am no contact with her. We support and help each other when the time comes. My sister who I will call Becky bio mom is my moms cousin, the story of Becky getting adopted by my parents was basically her bio parents were addicts that just came one day out of the blue for a visit than. 211 42 comments Top Judgement_Bot_AITA • 7 mo. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. I (27 F) and my fiancé (28 M) got engaged on a vacation to Destin with his dad’s family. mood spoiler: hopeful. This seems to have offended my mom a lot and maybe I can see why because she's not normally trying to tell us what to do. When she tells her family her Dad's s. And yes, the only way you can know if what’s probable can become possible is to name it as a problem and give it your very best effort. The OP explains that her ex and his now-fiancée “had picked out names” before the fiancée miscarried. He allowed Brenda to be abusive towards you. They made jokes such as "so when are you guys gonna get married" stuff like that. Yup, I waited way too long too. I think you can have more than 1 of each. AITA for contesting my dad's will because he left most of it to mom's affair baby and nothing for her? I (35M) have a younger 'brother' (Dave, 25M) who was the product of my mother's affair. Judgement_Bot_AITA • 1 yr. r/AITA- AITA for telling my mom she must have had no self-respect to marry my dad?Find out more on this episode of OKOP with Samuel Donner and John Frye!🔔 H. All was well. AITA for telling my mom that my sister was a better mother than her. Dad met his wife when I was 7. Give them a chance to come around, to learn, to see you thriving, being an adult. 211 42 comments Top Judgement_Bot_AITA • 7 mo. Before he arrived, I got a text from my mother saying “call me when your dad gets here. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. If they don't stop pushing scorch the earth. She's trying to support the things you're interested in. I tell her she shouldn’t be talking since while her last name is not first I have no option but to put it in everything that I signed. My mom thinks I’m crazy cause I’m planning to give any future kids I have my last name first and then the father. He chose to cheat on you all. My dad fought hard to get custody from my mom because he did not want to lose me at all. After birth she was exhausted and I had to fight my mom down while my sister fought her MIL down from being too. I'm the middle sister. That was issue number one, as my mom still carries my dad's last name. Only the mom can say if she thinks one or both of her of her husband and girlfriend are true loves/soul mates. Due to covid, she recently moved into the farmhouse he has been renovating for his retirement years. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. AITA for telling my wife she will respect our daughter not wanting her to meet her girlfriend because she made it this way ? So I have a 16-year-old daughter Harley My wife is extremely extremely religious and is very against anything other than what is written in the Bible. On Sunday my wife came into my son’s room. It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were now engaged. In fact she is the reason why dad is happy now and she will always be above my step-dad. This will be more credible if you can summon up some tears, but tell your mother that Kacy isn’t your girlfriend, she’s a guy and he’s your boyfriend, that you’ve always known you were gay, and you’re embarrassed that she doesn’t know it. AITA for telling my mom that my sister was a better mother than her. I tell her that she is evil, and I hate her, and that she shouldn't be a. When she turned 21, her parents gave her a car, and she decided to. Like, mom went so far as to tell me that I was being a dick to my dad and making him feel like he wasn't a good enough father. This is where I feel I was sort of the asshole. My boyfriend's son is younger than you. My dad fought hard to get custody from my mom because. obviously if she's visibly struggling with something i will. oregon stihl bar cross reference
Two years later and grandson said she’s still complaining about his horrible clothes, but he wisely has not let her know he is complicit. . Aita for telling my mom that i will respect my dads girlfriend more than her reddit
AITA for telling my daughter she has to go see her mom? My ex and I got divorced when our daughter Emma (F14) was a few months old. I think you can have more than 1 of each. My father was not a Holocaust survivor. This seems to have offended my mom a lot and maybe I can see why because she's not normally trying to tell us what to do. Her dad (in her own words) racist, bigoted, and antisemitic. The DIL. I feel like I should be more open to the situation, but it’s extremely hard for me because I loved my dad a lot and I think this would make him sad. ago Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. You like dying your hair, she supports you in buying hair dye and hair care products. • 19 min. And if you’re unwilling to give a good reason as to why, then you’re just being cruel. Telling my dads wife to stop calling herself my step mom. Many people criticized my dad for being an alcoholic. If you do see her, maybe do it somewhere neutral that you can leave if she is saying horrible things. I’m still getting text from her and my mom for what I said was rude and how I reacted was unnecessary for a “little test”. Brad has 2 kids Tessa (f26) and Jake (m18) my dad passed away shortly after I was born leaving my mom in mountains of debt. She seems awesome. My dad was devastated to say the least. I know my mom has a right to date and move on and I don’t want to get in her way, and I feel like I’m being unfair to her and her healing process because of my own grief. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think that I could be TA because she is my mother at the end of the day so maybe I shouldn’t have told her she doesn’t deserve our respect. So my parents have been divorced since I was 7 and Ive lived with my mom basically the whole time and dont really get along with my dads new wife and step daughter. NTA, I don’t get step parents that try to do this. Thank you to everyone who gave me advice on the previous post. He asked why I paid my tuition, and I said it was because my mom said she wouldn’t. Also, telling your mom to fuck off. She wanted to talk to me and my dad. She shoved her religion down my throat. NTA for asking her to respect your parenting, but you can't control her. I (16f) grew up without a father for a long time it was just me and my mom. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Sometimes there is blame only for one, often after 20 years the blame is shared between both. When she tells her family her Dad's s. Yes me neither. AITAH for telling my parents they should just get a divorce. We went to an open prayer hour. I'm the middle sister. Our dad had died three years earlier and mom had told us before we met Geoff that he had lost his only child, his daughter, four years before and that it was still a painful subject for him like our dad was for us. Last month my dad invited his girlfriend of 6 months over to meet us. I was the only one who walked her to the hospital. I met my dad's girlfriend. All fine with mom and Jeff. Honestly tell the family friend that they are more than happy to assist. My dad fought hard to get custody from my mom because he did not want to lose me at all. So the guy has been her husband for a number of years now and I can see why it might be upsetting for me to say that, and also how that would make me an asshole. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Throwaway Account. She's homophobic and it makes pop and dad upset. My dad fought hard to get custody from my mom because he did not want to lose me at all. If your dad was unhappy, he should have talked to her or left- not cheated. AITA for telling my mom she must have had no self-respect to marry my dad? (r/AmITheAsshole) Source: thrwy_sluttydad on Reddit (link removed because YouTube. I talked to harleys mom, I said that 1- she needs to go to therapy with someone who doesn’t choose someone’s side, and someone who helps her see other POV, but I am not willing to do that with her and that’s something she needs to do on her own. My mom has neglected her duties as a mother and wife, and my dad has had enough. In this case, your dad and his wife. He was all of those things. Basically, my mom had a hint that my dad was dating someone few weeks ago when he saw him at the local market with his gf. I respect my dad's gf more than I respect them because at least she didn't cheat on him and left him to pick up the broken pieces of our family. I'm fine with her hating him, it's a problem between my mom and my dad. I was 10 at that time. I knew that my mom had another boyfriend that made them to get a divorce. We talked for a while, my daughter wasn’t fond of the idea of divorce, reasoning being that if we did, she would be with me and not her mom, and she feels like us being together gives some hope that her mom will change her decision but if we aren’t she fears that she. When Emma was 9 she told us she wants to spend more time with me and we decided to have her every other week. Blaming GF for your Dad breaking up your family--your Dad took vows with your Ma, which he broke. You're an adult. my mom wasn’t a fan of bessy for unknown. Maybe I could have not jumped to that when she was bringing up my sister not dating her friend's son and stuff. I (19F) don’t support my moms engagement to her boyfriend. Well he is not an alcoholic. I knew that my mom had another boyfriend that made them to get a divorce. Like, mom went so far as to tell me that I was being a dick to my dad and making him feel like he wasn't a good enough father. I was a kid (5 to 10), she would call me a plague, curse, said terrible things about my mom when I was 10 I decided not to see my dad anymore, I went Nc and he was fine with it. I was angry that my mom betrayed him and my family. Your Mom should know your love for her is different than the love for your girlfriend. Ultimately, I think this would have been better brought up in private with your father if even brought up at all. Considering she's the one who is helping to raise your child. He's manipulative and toxic. He has called me out for this and I told him it is not his choice and he doesn’t own my mom and needs to respect her choice and my. Original - 22 March 2023 Backstory: My (17F) mom (45F) cheated on my dad (46M) 7 years ago with my step-dad, Alan (50M). He knew you were there and continued his behavior. We went to an open prayer hour. ago Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I [16M] have been dating my girlfriend [16F] for a year and a half. Her dad (55M) came to this country in the 90s to work and made many good friends, which my dad (55M) was one of them. I (16f) grew up without a father for a long time it was just me and my mom. Im out of town for college and now live with my boyfriend in my college town. If you have 50. Also, happy birthday 💛 Today is my daughter's birthday, too. Nothing wrong with being a step parent but crazy to try and act like. (New update)- AITAH for telling my mom that I will respect my dad's gf more than my step-dad. Tell him and tell her she needs to stop interfering with your relationship with your mother. I was a kid (5 to 10), she would call me a plague, curse, said terrible things about my mom when I was 10 I decided not to see my dad anymore, I went Nc and he was fine with it. So, now the update, I talked to my dad and arranged therapy with. The second time was when our mom had to operate away one eye. 2- if she continues this you ruin any chance with her, and as a mom she made a decision to. 24 votes, 36 comments. This also isn't the first time you've called her names. I don’t hold any of that against her though. I'm also going to guess that you caring for your brother is a pretty common thing, and that's why you took him to the park when you left. I started getting annoyed and just said, “I don’t really care what you think because I don’t even really like you and you aren’t my mom. As for GF sending pics back in the day, you're living proof your Mom was there before her. 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